Saturday, April 16, 2011

Taking A Girl Out Of A Bar: Bar Chit-Chat, Lady Drinks Etc.


Okay, now you walk along, say, Soi 8 in Central Pattaya on a random evening of the year.
"Hello sexy man", "Where you go?", and sometimes an unambigious "I want go with you" is shouted at you from every single beer bar, and Soi 8, just like neighbouring Soi 7, is absolutely packed withopen-air bars.
Nice sight, all these young exotic chicks competing for your attention, ain't it?! Just don't worry if your possibly low self-esteem or reason can hardly agree with their rating of your incredibly good looks (that you'd never been aware of before walking along this narrow sidestreet.) Ok, you might be old, bold and fat, so what? Even more reason to enjoy their attention, i.e. as long as you don'treally believe you were as "sexy" or "handsome" as they make you believe you were.
When you've read this page and should indeed stroll along Soi 8, chances that you finally stop at one of the dozens of beer bars and start a chat with one of the hostesses are probably very high. Now don't you expect a sophisticated conversation in perfect Oxford English - just remember that the foreign language skills of the average Isaan rice farmer's daughter are usually rather low. This is also why the notorious Thai bar girl "chit-chat" always samples the same old, rather silly chat-
up lines, phrases and standard questions they've picked up from their experienced co-workers:
"Where you from?
What my name you?
How long you stay Pattaya?"

The popular standard question "What hotel you stay?" could be an early hint at a 'more profound' (financial) interest in your company.
Sooner or later "your girl" might ask you to buy her a so-called
Lady drink. Now Pattaya bar girls earn commissions on such "lady drinks" (often orange juice or so), so given the low base wages, there's nothing wrong with buying your girl a 'lady drink' or two (prices are slightly above those of bottled beer). However, you should be careful when a girl pushes you too much or asks you for a new lady drink every 15 minutes - the more so if you've replied to her question "How many times you come Pattaya" with a telltale "First time."
If you like the special girl you've been chatting with, you may ask her to accompany you back to your room, that is, unless she's made her readiness to be your partner of the night clear enough herself. On the other hand, if this is your first bar of the night, maybe during your first-ever visit to Pattaya, you may as well "check bin" (modern Thai for "Check the bill, please") and stroll along, have another drink at the bar nextdoor, and find out whether the beauty over there is not actually even more beautiful.
Take your time, enjoy yourself, don't fall for the first best girl! Remember, especially as "Pattaya newbie": You're not in a hurry here, there are more than a thousand bars in Pattaya with tens of thousands of sexy bar girls, who are (nearly) all willing to spoil you and be your special friend of the night!

Bar Fines & How Much To Pay For Sex?

In order to "take a girl out of her bar" - usually for the rest of the night or until the beginning of her next shift - you'll be asked to pay her
'bar fine'. That's the fee charged by the bar for taking one of the service girls out and usually around 300 Baht in a Beer Bar or about 500-700 Baht in a GoGo bar.
Just remember: You will still have to pay "your girl" a kind of "compensation fee" for extra sexual services, or simply the time she's investing in you - even if you shouldn't have sex with her, e.g. if you're too drunk. This money is usually not paid in advance, but after you've had sex or when the girl leaves.

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